EP 262: Job Search Taking Forever? You're Doing Fake Work

Job Search Taking Forever? You're Doing Fake Work (And Your Brain Thinks It's Helping)

You've applied to 300 jobs. Your resume is polished to perfection. You're personalizing every cover letter. You feel exhausted, burnt out, like you're running as hard as you can. But somehow you're not getting anywhere.

What if I told you that you're not actually working hard—you're just doing busy work that feels productive?

This video exposes the three patterns that keep smart people stuck in endless job searches, spinning their wheels on a treadmill while convinced they're making progress. These aren't obvious mistakes. They're deceptive traps your brain falls into because it's easier to stay busy than to do the uncomfortable work that actually moves you forward.

Pattern #1: You're measuring the wrong things. You think applying to hundreds of jobs counts as effort. It doesn't. A resume sent into the void isn't progress—it's a 1-2% chance wrapped in the illusion of productivity. The only metric that matters: Did you have an actual conversation with a human who can say yes or no? If you're having more applications than conversations, you've identified your problem.

Pattern #2: You're not learning from your failures. You're saying "I don't know what I'm doing wrong" instead of developing theories about exactly what went wrong and how to fix it. Every interview that doesn't turn into an offer is clear data—you just haven't done the work to extract it. Most people avoid this step because it's uncomfortable, so they repeat the same mistakes without even knowing it.

Pattern #3: You're engaging in drama. The posts about broken systems, ghosting, and unfair rejections? They feel productive to read and comment on. They're not. They're pulling your focus away from the actual work: communicating your value better, telling stories more precisely, refining what will actually get you hired. The people winning right now don't have time for drama—they're too busy figuring out what to do next.

What You'll Learn: • Why 300 applications can equal zero progress (and what actually counts as forward movement) • The three questions to ask yourself after every interview to extract usable data • How drama disguises itself as "raising awareness" but actually keeps you stuck longer • Why conversations with humans who can say yes/no are the only metric that matters • The specific shift from feeling like you're on a treadmill to actually covering ground

Ready to stop doing fake work and start getting real results? Grab the free guide: 8 Reasons Smart People Land Interviews But No Offers: https://www.asknataliefisher.com/8-Reasons

 

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